25 May 2015

Seven Weeks so far...

For some reason this last week, the seventh week (or wait, the eighth? Up until he was seven weeks old?) has been the hardest so far. Probably because Graham is waking up and not asleep constantly, and he's not showing any signs of sleeping longer stretches at night so Tommy and I are both pretty much exhausted. Really, I think it's been harder because I've tried to actually DO things, and accomplish stuff on my to-do list, and I should just know that that's not very realistic and is only going to end up in frustration. And, like horses who can sense fear, these two boys can sense the stress and exhaustion and frustration in the air, and try to push buttons and take advantage of our weakness. And really, I just mean Dane when I say "two boys," because LOOK AT THIS FACE:

He could never do anything naughty!

But then again, look at BOTH of these faces. This was totally not posed--Dane loves laying down next to Graham and "snuggling" with him and holding his hand. 

This is why we take pictures of them--so we can remember how cute they are after a long hard day and you are realizing tomorrow you have to go through it all again.

Bummer that this is blurry. Other than the hospital, this is the only family picture we've taken since Graham was born. PARENT FAIL! But we've taken tons of pictures of Graham himself, at least, so he's been totally documented so far. We'll get lots of family pictures at our family reunions this summer. For sure.

Matching boys!

He's a little Texan! Haha, only in Texas would they sell onesies with a map of the state on it. 

Graham is starting to really be interested in Dane--he tries to follow him with his eyes when Dane's bouncing around him. It's pretty darn cute.

Okay, he is so cute. I'm starting to forgive him for spending all weekend only napping in 30-minute spurts and being super grumpy. (Or maybe the grumpy one was just me... I can't remember exactly.)


The most exciting thing that happened recently is that Dane was handed down a TRIKE from some neighbors who are moving. The mom offered to give us this trike months ago, but we'd both kind of forgotten about it until she just dropped it by this week. And every single day since, as soon as Dane wakes up in the morning, the only thing he wants to do is to go ride his trike. And same thing when he wakes up from his nap. He refuses to learn how to pedal, so he just pushes himself along with his feet, but he sure thinks he's speeding along as it is and doesn't seem to mind, so we'll let him figure out the pedaling eventually. We've spent a good amount of time on our driveway and sidewalk this week letting Dane practice on his trike.


Super cute father and son.

We've got a new, fresh start this week, so I will try to keep us all happy this week. Phew!

Father-Son Campout

Last weekend, Tommy and Dane got to go to our ward father-son campout. I think I was more excited for them to go than either of them were--I just knew how much FUN Dane was going to have and I was practically giddy with thinking of how cute it was for them to be there together. Dane has been SUCH a trooper with all the adjusting we've all had to do around here, and he really deserved some serious one-on-one time with his dad and playtime with his friends at the campout. So Graham and I had a quiet evening here at home while they went camping. It has been SO rainy here all month, but despite the forecast, it was clear (almost) the whole time they went, and they didn't even come home totally muddy. 
This is how excited they were to go:

Dane is still trying to figure out how to do "thumbs up."

I told Dane, "I'll miss you so much! I'm going to cry the whole time you're gone!" and halfway to the campgrounds, he told Tommy, "Mommy's crying right now!"

Dane was in heaven the whole time. He spent all evening and all morning wandering around with the other two-year-old boys who were there, playing in the fields, playing soccer, and dragging around some really huge sticks.

Dane and his friend Liam.

Dane and Ben carrying an enormous stick together.


They both had their own little monkey chairs from Kroger.

After a long night in the tent--still smiling and happy! (This was inside the tent, which is why it's all pink.)


They had a blast. Tommy possibly got an even better night of sleep in the tent than he would have here--courtesy of Graham--and Dane seriously could not have been happier. There were a few meltdowns on Saturday because of how tired he was, but it was totally worth it. If only Tommy could bring Dane camping with him on the Scout campouts--Dane would be in heaven! Maybe in a few years that would be manageable... but as it is, this one time was a treat for them.

19 May 2015

smiles

He smiled for the first time on Mother's Day (what a thoughtful Mother's Day present!), and he's been perfecting it ever since.





It's just too good!

15 May 2015

good news!

So good news--this whole transition to two kids has been a lot better than I expected. Things are going really well. But right now, the babe is crying, so I can't write more, but here are a few pictures.




"I dig my dad" and "I dig mommy." So cute!